thankheaven

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Member Since: 4/26/2003
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CD | Theme - Break Up

you broke up with me in an email. dick.

Artist Song Buy
brand new  mix tape  buy on itunes
the mars volta  concertina  buy on itunes
against me!  8 hours full of sleep (or 8 full hours of sleep...i've seen it both ways)  buy on itunes
weezer  butterfly  buy on itunes
the ataris  your boyfriend sucks  buy on itunes
dashboard confessional  ender will save us all  buy on itunes
john mayer  comfortable  buy on itunes
weezer  broke my heart  buy on itunes
cake  sad songs and waltzes  buy on itunes
brand new  the quiet things that no one ever knows  buy on itunes

Comment:

this is what he wrote:
[hey . this is kind of hard for me to say cuz I don't like beng the bad guy but I can't go out with you anymore. I just wanna stop goin out with all these girls that I don't really love bc it makes me forget what it was to love a gilr and how it felt when I truly did love someone (which has only been twice in my life). I hope your not mad but the feelings I have for u arent love, I don't think, its more of a lust and I just don't like things the way they are going. well I have to go to work soon so I have to go eat some food but please don't take this personal bc its not u its me. ur a great girl and u deserve someone that really does love you. bye
-alan]

and this is my reply:
[ok. i can understand the breakup thing.
but i have one question. if you "wanna stop goin out with all these girls that you dont really love bc it makes you forget what it was to love a girl..." then why did you ask me out in the first place? and all the other girls that you've dated in the past year or whatever? don't worry about me being mad, i'm not, i'm upset yes i won't lie but i'm not mad. i have no right to be. but i was happy with you and you're a good guy but if you know that you need to stop dating all those girls then stop. it's not that difficult. and that whole it's not you it's me line, you need to work on getting a new one, i've heard that way too many times...haha. this right here is the reason i don't date people. i hate breakups, i hate fights, i hate almost everything and i dont trust anyone anymore really. anyway i have to go to kendall's now, she wants me to come over bc i called her and she told me to come over so we can eat ice cream and be pathetic on the couch. so yeah anyway i'm gone. bye. and thanks for the month. and by the way just so you know if you dont absolutely hate it i'd like to still be friends with you but if you don't want to it's cool too. i can easily forget all this.
me.]

ahh. breakups suck. anyway this is *sigh* yet another sad cd to add to my collection, but this one was actually inspired by real events (above). why is it that when guys sing songs about heartbreak they seem more genuine than when girls do? i noticed that while making this mix.

"...*it's short just like your temper*..."

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Steiney_77
Date: 9/6/2003
Breaking up by e-mail?? Wow, and I thought breaking up over the phone was wrong and impersonal. At least you got a good mix of it.
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abigail dice1
Date: 9/6/2003
awww damn, that sucks. I got dumped via phone, which is almost as bad. oi. nice mix though. *hugs*
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Dru
Date: 9/6/2003
Kids are so cute... I dig the Cake track, by the by- appropriate. 1 thing, + I don't mean to sound like a prick: what's so damn bad about a break-up by e-mail? I think it's kinda nice. For the break-upper, it's cool 'cause you can focus all your thoughts before you actually open your mouth. That way, it prevents all manner of embarrassing slip-ups (although he DID still pull out "It's not you it's me;" yeesh. As for the break-uppee, he/she is spared the opportunity of doing something stupid, like getting all weepy, hysterical, or possibly jamming the nearest sharp object into any number of fleshy parts of the break-upper. Out.
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Dru
Date: 9/6/2003
Sorry for the double up, but let me also say this: guys are assholes. We are, we really, really are. Don't try to understand us, just smile in a moving-on, fuck-the-world, superior sort of way. Pity the poor soul, for he is, alas, a man. Out.
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bubblingsyntax
Date: 9/6/2003
since when is there a weezer song called "broke my heart"? i feel sympathetic, kid. though i would rather like to break up via email...
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rlewis
Date: 9/6/2003
how bout the weakerthans track "left and leaving" ...i love that brand new track, it's so teenage and angst-y and perfect for this mix
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Drew D.
Date: 9/6/2003
I'd really like to comment on this mix, but, y'know, I have to go to work soon so I have to go eat some food.
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mat8drb
Date: 9/6/2003
I agree. dick. Quality mix, although I don't know John Mayer.
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jab
Date: 9/6/2003
he stinks.
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The_Stellar_Frequency1
Date: 9/7/2003
that guy IS a dick. i think i forgot how to love actually means his penis doesn't fire. anyhow, good mix (especially brand new, cake, mars volta)
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Mirandom
Date: 9/7/2003
I got dumped in an email once. It sucks. I know how you feel. Also that's good music.

Chin up!
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B.1
Date: 9/10/2003
Ahhh! Brand New! I love them sooo much, I totally have been there with a stinky break up like that. Its so hard to get over people, even if you only dated for a month. Thats definately somewhere I've been. Anyways, I really like your mix!

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