you're changing your heart.

Artist Song
pedro the lion  options 
the appleseed cast  innocent vigilant ordinary 
radiohead  house of cards 
the honorary title  everything i once had 
flowers from the man who shot your cousin  i do not love you anymore 
cursive  am i not yours? 
the new trust  absence makes the heart go wander 
loquat  to the floor 
dashboard confessional  saints and sailors 
the good life  don't make love so hard 
feist  one two three four 
bright eyes  it's cool, we can still be friends 
jets to brazil  empty picture frame 
stars  time can never kill the trust heart 
death cab for cutie  you can do better than me 

Comment:

60 minutes. this is one of the more personal mixes i've posted. last summer/fall my marriage wasn't doing terribly well, so i started a mix of songs that communicated my biggest fears about what could happen to us, and in some respects, what i felt was happening (drifting apart, infidelity, eventual breakup). luckily we fought our way our of that funk and things are brilliant. i guess it's a thing that all relationships go through, but i hope it never happens again. i finally took the time to finish it today and it serves as sort of a reminder to myself not to ever let things get that bad again.

Feedback:

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mahdishain
Date: 5/14/2008
Glad things are going well for you.
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anthony lombardi
Date: 5/14/2008
wow, man - this one really hits close to home. there are two songs here that hit so unbearably close to home, in fact, i can barely read the titles without wincing in self-reference (the cursive & death cab songs, for the record) - the radiohead, honorary title & bright eyes do it for me too. this is terrific...
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Rebel Princess
Date: 5/15/2008
It's heartbreaking just rading the titles, I'm glad things worked out for the two of you.
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Funky Ratchet
Date: 5/15/2008
Track 5 is my new favorite band name. Glad to hear things are back on track.
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sbessg
Date: 5/15/2008
That is a fantastic Radiohead pick for this theme; all of this is great, though. Glad to hear things are going better!<3 Sara
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avocado rabbit
Date: 5/15/2008
My experience with this sort of thing was that it changed forever the relationship, not necessarily in a bad way or a good way, more neutral. This mix is very good, also as a reminder of the paths we choose.
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strange loop
Date: 5/16/2008
Good to hear that things are going well again : )Nice to see Appleseed Cast on here. That along with Cursive and Radiohead make this a winner in my book!
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njr
Date: 5/17/2008
Music will never let you down. Relationships do change, and it's no one's fault. Life is full of twists and turns. Wishing you all the best . . .