fool by lifehouse, ender will save us all by dashboard confessional, good fucking bye by matt skiba and sell my soul by our lady peace may have the same message you want...

superhero by ani difranco (dilate), shame by stabbing westward (wither, blister, burn + peel), crazy by cordrazine (closing time), the 2 of us by suede (dog man star), something i can never have by nine inch nails (pretty hate machine), the same deep water as you by the cure (disintegration).
I'd like to say things will get better, but life really isn't like that, is it?

try out jeff buckley's "last goodbye" (a bit overused, i know) and nina simone's version of "lilac wine" (simply stunning)

Also, try Tea Party's 'Walking Wounded'