Jenergy

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Member Since: 10/18/2004
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What Part of Good-Bye Don't You Understand?

Artist Song
The Pearlfishers  Go Away Boy 
The Beatles  Don't Bother Me 
The Treniers  I Said No 
The Ramones  I Don't Wanna Walk Around With You (Live) 
Little Willie & The Adolescents  Get Out Of My Life 
The Cat  Hit The Road Jack 
The White Stripes  There's No Home for You Here 
David Byrne  Don't Fence Me In 
Rasputina  You Don't Own Me 
Esquivel  Who's Sorry Now? 
Sam Cooke  Cry Me A River 
Ray Charles  I'm Movin' On 
Johnny Winter  Sick And Tired 
Sleepy La Beef  I'm Through 
Rose Maddox  Single Girl 
Hank Williams  Move It On Over 
Bob Dylan  It Ain't Me Babe 
Ann-Margaret  There'll Be Some Changes Made 
The 5.6.7.8's  I Don't Need You No More 
Esquerita  You Can't Pull Me Down 
Louis Jordan  I'm Gonna Leave You On The Outskirts Of Town 
Billie Holiday  'Tain't Nobody's Business If I Do 
Etta James  You're Taking Up Another Man's Place 

Comment:

I suppose this could be construed as a break-up mix, but the break up was over a year ago. So this really isn't about the break up, but more about me getting on with my life & most importantly getting my ex's stuff out of the house. We were together over a decade, and he's a god-awful packrat. When he departed he left behind a couple of hundred books, two washing-machine-sized hard drives from the 1950s, several dozen jars of jelly and pickles (the fruit of his father's retirement), a poster-size printer (and three other smaller printers), most of his clothes (he'd lost over 50 pounds and never bothered to dispose of the old stuff), a non-working motorcycle, three soldiering irons, over 1000 CDs, several sets of dishes, an amazing array of hideous "art" from his mother, and so forth. He also left behind a mind-boggling network of wires (electric, computer, telephone) running through the house, with instructions that I shouldn't touch them because he couldn't remember which went where and which were live.



Anyway, the octopus of wire has been dismantled, virtually all his stuff is out of my living area, and I have a document from a lawyer saying that the rest of his stuff has to be out of the house, the basement, and the garage by the end of May. I feel kinda creepy having gone to a lawyer about this; he hasn't been contentious, just passive. But given that most of my friends were advising me to sell his stuff on e-Bay, or throw it on the street, or simply have a "Let's get drunk, put on your old Alternative Tentacles albums, and destroy stuff" party, I guess mandating that he actually remove it isn't so bad.


Oh - and thanks to Michael (mckbrd) for the great Rose Maddox tune!

Feedback:

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p the swede
Date: 4/13/2005
yes, whats so good about goodbye?
we all need som songs to take us further
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Media Vixen: Radio Sally
Date: 4/13/2005
JG, this is great! Just the kind of exorcism a person needs. Very personal, very direct, very cathartic (I would imagine). Hope this means clear sailing this Spring. Looking forward to more beers!
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Randy13
Date: 4/13/2005
Look's like a good start. Music is great medicine.
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sport !
Date: 4/13/2005
Keep the CDs! The collection seems to make pretty damn good mixes!
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Mo Twang!
Date: 4/13/2005
Looks like just the right mix for the circumstances.
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Instru Mental
Date: 4/13/2005
So ... DO you/WILL you keep the CDs? Inquiring minds WANT to know! ; )
There's a Jim O'Rourke tune called "There's Hell in Hello, But More in Goodbye," which might be good for this mix, but it's an instumental, so you might not get the beauty of the title out of the tune. In short, ditto Kent's comments.
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Jenergy
Date: 4/13/2005
Did I keep the CDs? I packed them in a box and put them in his office, where they sat for several months. I really don't want any of his stuff; the psychic cost is too high. Anyway, we've always kept our music collections separate. I wouldn't want anyone thinking that I had seen fit to buy everything Jethro Tull ever recorded, and he wouldn't want anyone thinking he's an accordion enthusiast.


OTOH, I did rip most of his collection before I boxed it up (not the Jethro Tull, though).


Oh, and Kent, nothing on the mix is from his collection; his music has made its way onto other mixes of mine, but not this one.
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Nest of Vipers
Date: 4/13/2005
Looks like a good mix.
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French Connection
Date: 4/13/2005
The Pearlfishers are on permanent repeat play in my house at the moment, the rest of this looks damn good too Jen. Happy huntin' re the closing track too!
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Dom1
Date: 4/13/2005
A well themed mix Jen with a truck load of great artists! Happy Freedom!
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Rob Conroy
Date: 4/13/2005
Looks like a great mix. I wish you well in your endeavor to gain freedom. :-)
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The Misfit
Date: 4/13/2005
It's tough to make a mix like this, and tougher still (but strengthening and rewarding) to listen to it as time continues to pass. But damn, girl, what a kickass mix this is (in a couple of senses...)!
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hemizen
Date: 4/13/2005
I wish to add my best wishes to you and hope good things come your way.
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mckbrd
Date: 4/13/2005
this looks like it would do the trick, nice!!!!!!!!Yowee, pack-rat at the least.......Best Wishes, but something tells me you'll do just fine!!!!!!! (btw, You're very Welcome!)
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Franklin Onn12
Date: 4/13/2005
I'd say you're well on your way!
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McDonald12
Date: 4/13/2005
A really great mix, Jen, and I sincerely hope things work out okay for you soon.
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zeke
Date: 4/13/2005
oh my goodness oh my goodness. I'm all ABOUT the destroy stuff party theme. If the quality of this mix is en-par with your current quality of life... somehow I think you're doing fine without this guy. ;)
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Orchid
Date: 4/13/2005
Congratulations! It's spring and you are entering a brand new phase of your life... which can only mean interesting things! It must feel very empowering. Good luck w/ everything. Great mix!
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Bear
Date: 4/14/2005
'Packrat'- that's a new one. Great insult, great mix! I like the idea of the destroy stuff party!
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plushpig
Date: 4/14/2005
If your new life proves half as good as this you're in for a great time!
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G-Sphere
Date: 4/14/2005
Wonderful mix and best wishes as you move on.
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bungeeless jumper
Date: 4/14/2005
the mix is brilliant and it's great that you could find a reasonable way to deal with the situation.if i were you i'd probably go for the "destroy'em" party:)
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Thomas_Mohr
Date: 4/14/2005
Lovely (and funny, in a way). Great you finally managed to lose all the dead weight. ;)
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FLWB
Date: 4/14/2005
Glad you looked beyond the destruction and put your catharsis into a mix! Besides anyone who leaves their music behind is not worth the emotional turmoil anyway.
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Sean Lally
Date: 4/14/2005
Ee-yikes! This is the real punk rawk. So many great cathartic selections. Now about this Tull-bashing.... this happens every few months on AotM. I tell ya, Tull (up to around 1980) was pretty great. I can see that I'm going to have to dig out my old Tull vinyl and make a mix.
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valis
Date: 4/14/2005
Not just a new chapter, a new book entirely. Best wishes.(I'm with FLWB.)
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lo-fi jr.
Date: 4/15/2005
I'm for the destroying stuff option. Good mix, Jen. Beats primal scream therapy.
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Moe
Date: 4/15/2005
So this is the guy you've been comparing me to? ;) Let me know where you dump his CDs so I can have first pickings. Oh yes, the mix is totally cool. Sorry it took a nasty break-up to inspire it. :(
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Curtis_Burns
Date: 4/16/2005
Out with the old and in with a mix! A fantastic, evisceratin' mix.
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James Jackson
Date: 4/22/2005
Fucking excellent! WOW!
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buglady
Date: 4/28/2005
Great stuff, what a cathartic mix!
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gobi
Date: 3/23/2006
Crikey! Just discovering your mixes - I never realised I had missed out on your life like this. Great mix, I hope you feel extra super duper uber positive now and don't need geeks like me reminding you of this mix. Love this, by the way.